Being suspected of domestic violence
Domestic violence describes a context, not one single offence. Ask which act, period and legal allegation are involved. A suspicion is not a finding that the allegation has been proved.
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Domestic violence describes a context, not one single offence. Ask which act, period and legal allegation are involved. A suspicion is not a finding that the allegation has been proved.
Save existing messages and relevant records lawfully. Keep the full conversation rather than only a favourable fragment. Discuss with your lawyer what the material shows and what remains disputed.
The other person may want the relationship to continue. That does not automatically stop a prosecution or cancel a restriction. Do not ask someone to change their account to make the case disappear.
A contact restriction or other order may affect daily life. Read the actual decision with your lawyer. Do not assume informal permission from the other person overrides an official restriction.
Discuss how necessary matters about children or belongings can be handled within the applicable conditions. Do not use another person or a new account to bypass a restriction.
Discuss the allegation, evidence and practical arrangements with your lawyer. Seek appropriate help for immediate safety concerns. Keep actual decisions and confirmed arrangements together so the next step is clear.
Read the full explanation on the Criminal Law in the Netherlands website.
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